Have you ever wanted a better future, but when the opportunity comes you stress out on it? You spin and spin with the ideas running through your head and you don’t know what to do. If you stay where you are, you’re at least comfortable and have memorized the patterns of what will happen in your life. You’ve learned how to build space around the dysfunctional and have made a sort of home. Maybe it’s your job or your marriage or your relationship with your family.