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Day 335: It Is What It Is

Day 335: It Is What It Is

You cannot change the past. You cannot go back and fixed how you were raised, decisions that your parents made (or didn’t make), and the problems you lived through cannot be erased.

If a parent hurt you (or both of your parents), there is no way to go back in time and undo the damage.

You might want an apology or see that the person who hurt you have changed, but that might never happen.

Day 233: Healing from Within

Day 233: Healing from Within

For many years, I looked for healing and validation from external sources. As simple as it sounds, I had always wanted my father to come back to us and say that he loved us and that he had fixed all his problems. All I wanted was to be loved and to have a happy family.

When I grew older, I knew that my father wouldn’t come back, but then I tried to find healing and wholeness through relationships. I would fall in love and mistakenly think that all my problems would be solved because I found love.